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Many parents are
hard put to explain to their youth why some music, movies, books, games, and
magazines are not acceptable material for them to bring into the home to see or
hear. One parent came up with an original idea that was hard to refute.
He listened to all
the reasons his children gave for wanting to see a particular PG-13 movie: it
had their favorite actors, everyone else was seeing it, even church members
said it was great, it was only rated PG-13 because of the suggestion of
sex (they never really showed it), the language was pretty good (they only used
the Lord's name in vain three times in the whole movie), the video effects were
fabulous and the plot was action packed. Yes, there was the scene where a
building and a bunch of people got blown up, but the violence was just the
normal stuff, it wasn't very bad. Even with all these explanations for the
rating, the father wouldn't give in. He didn't even give them a satisfying
explanation for saying, "No." He just said "No."
Later that evening,
this same father asked his teens if they would like some brownies he had
prepared. He explained that he had taken the family's favorite recipe and added
something new. They asked what it was. He calmly replied that he had added dog
poop. He stated that it was only a tiny bit and that all the other ingredients
were gourmet quality. He had taken great care to bake it at the precise
temperature for the exact time. He was sure the brownies would be superb.
Even with all the
explanations of the perfect attributes of the brownies, the teens would not
take one. The father acted surprised. There was only one minor ingredient that
would have caused them to act so stubbornly. He assured them that they would
hardly notice it at all. But they all held firm and would not try the brownies.
He then explained
that the movie they wanted to see was just like the brownies. Satan tries to
enter our minds and our homes by deceiving us into believing that just a little
bit of evil doesn't matter. With the brownies, just a little bit makes all the
difference between a great brownie and a totally unacceptable product. He
explained that even though the smallest amount of dog poop makes the brownie
totally unacceptable, they seemed to have no problem consuming a movie of
similar ingredients. The movie people would have us believe the movies that are
coming out are acceptable for adults and youths to see, but they are no more so
than dog poop brownies are edible.
Now, when this
father's children want to do something or see something they should not, the
father merely asks them if they would like some of his special dog poop
brownies and they never ask about that item again.
paradoxical approach to teaching. nice one.
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